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October 11 Saturday
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Lunch at Ferme Saint Simeon |
It's a long flight from Dallas to Paris, and it was morning when we arrived.
After a long nap, we went to one of Paris’ excellent restaurants. Following the
dinner, we made our way to the famous Hemingway bar & Ritz Club for
after-dinner cocktails.
October 12 Sunday
We left Paris by helicopter. Flying over Omaha beach, our minds went back to
that desperate struggle to establish a beach head back on June 6, 1944. The
five-star restaurant we went to for lunch has a helipad. Apparently, other
famous people (get it: other famous people), also arrive there for lunch.
Kerensa spilt her water all over the table — confirming once again that we were
meant to be together.
After successfully completing three of the eight courses, we bid our farewell.
We were sure that the waiter had mixed feelings about our departure. On the one
hand, he was relieved to be rid of the dorks. On the other, he was insulted
that we did not complete our meal.
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Romantic champagne hot air balloon ride at
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The magnificent Chateau d'Esclimont, one
hour outside Paris near Chartres and Rambouillet |
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October 13 Monday
The hot air balloon ride was spectacular. We had a panoramic view of the castle
grounds and the surrounding countryside. Afterward, it was back to the Ritz for
a fabulous dinner.
October 14 Tuesday
Chanel has ten private shows a year. Of course, we slept through ours. Never
fear! We still had a great day with our own private shopping guide. Kerensa had
been practicing her credit card quick draw for months, and this is where all
her training finally paid off. After a day of shopping we arrived back at the
Ritz where Herb had a much deserved nervous break down.
Herb’s assistant, Linda, had gone to a great deal of trouble to get us tickets
to the Moulin Rouge. We blew it off (don’t tell her). Oh well, we will
certainly be back to Paris.
October 15 Wednesday
Kerensa took pity on her intended by bringing him back a Big Mac. We
took a break during the day to rest up for our flight that night to the
Seychelles.
Herb talked to Marty about True Beginnings business. After the conversation he
asked Marty to call Linda in Dallas to have her call the Ritz in Paris (yes,
the hotel we were staying at) to confirm our limo reservations. Why? Because he
hates Tom Fool questions! That’s why! We know what you’re thinking: “Does
Kerensa know what she’s really getting into???”
October 16 Thursday
The aerial view of the Seychelles is unbelievable. When we arrived, we were
whisked away by helicopter to Fregate. Herb slept. Kerensa explored the
beaches. That night we had a relaxed dinner in our villa overlooking the Indian
(sorry Mr. Custer) Ocean.
October 17 Friday
Today we went to two beaches. To reach them we had to climb down from
the overhanging cliffs above. When Herb had at last taken the last step down,
Kerensa was already playing in the waves. She had to use her knowledge of the
fireman’s carry to get him back to the top. Oh yes, there was a second beach.
Herb is recovering nicely in the ICU unit of the Fregate hospital, (OK it’s a
joke).
October 18 Saturday

Keith in Nairobi, happy he's almost
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Kerensa's family with Keith and Ray —
we're almost there! |
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Victor, Beverly, Kara, Eric, Keith, and Ray arrive by plane. Kerensa was
grateful to have Kara (her maid-of-honor and slave until after the wedding)
here to do her every bidding. Keith had lugged Kerensa’s wedding dress for
forty-eight hours straight and was rewarded with a big smile as she hugged her
dress.
Afterwards, we strolled along the beach. We will cherish no memory more than
holding hands and feeling wet sand between our toes as the waves lapped up
covering our knees. We were accompanied by a retinue of crabs helping us
celebrate our good fortune.
October 19 Sunday
Group photo after the 4 hour long dinner. |
We went to breakfast at the lobby restaurant overlooking the ocean — just us.
Sometimes just being alive with the one you love is paradise.
That night we had the longest welcoming dinner in recorded history — some four
hours. It was good to be with family on this happiest of occasions.
October 20 Monday
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The whole group (minus Linda who was still
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M & M arrived early by helicopter while Ruth, Jane, and Linda arrived by
boat a couple of hours later. Jane and Linda were more than a little green
after a choppy ride. However, Ruth was unaffected and beaming with delight. She
questioned “what is our species primordial past that causes man to leave the
safety of shore to venture so far out?” The question remains unanswered along
with the puzzle of why we leave the earth to go to the moon. We don’t know the
answer to either question, but we're grateful that we are this way.
October 21 Tuesday
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We went Scuba Diving and it was wonderful — you could see forever! We did see
some white tip sharks, but fortunately, Herb brought his California Bar card so
they left us alone (professional courtesy you know). Later that evening we went
on a sunset cruise with the whole family. You haven’t lived until you have
witnessed a sunset on the Indian Ocean.
After the cruise we had a beach BBQ.
October 22 Wednesday - The Rehearsal Dinner
Vic, Eric, and Ray went game fishing and caught Mahi-Mahi, Rainbow Runners, and
Barracuda. It was a little choppy so they were all green when they triumphantly
arrived back at the Marina.
M & M went sea shell hunting. The rest of us vegged.
We didn’t have a rehearsal, but undeterred we did have a rehearsal dinner.
Toasts all around!
October 23 Thursday
Kerensa kissed Herb goodbye for the day and off she went for a day of relaxing
messages, facials, and nails. Not knowing what to do with himself without his
best friend around (yeah, I know, this is making you sick), Herb had lunch with
Ruth and went for a swim.
Here Comes the Bride started and Herb strained to see his soul mate come around
the corner — but no Kerensa. She had forgotten her bouquet. Kara ran back to
the villa, retrieved it, and ran back. The music resumed — but still no
Kerensa. She had forgotten her vows. Her Dad ran back this time.
Meanwhile Herb was composing what he was going to say to the guests after being
left at the alter.
When she came around the corner at last, Herb turned pale and began to tremble.
He had never before seen any human being so lovely. He lost himself in the
angelic scene as she strolled down the isle, arm-in-arm with Vic. Herb glanced
briefly at Vic as they exchanged Kerensa’s hand.
He was swollen with pride. The relationship between a father and his daughter
is unlike any other. He will always be her hero. She will always be the little
girl that he comforted when she skinned her knee. Vic had mixed emotions this
whole year. A brief six months before he had given away his youngest daughter,
Kara. Both girls loved and admired their father. Herb wanted to take time out
to reassure his father-in-law that he was not losing a daughter but gaining a
son-in-law. But, on second thought, decided that news might push him over the
edge.
Kara, Kerensa’s maid-of-honor was beautiful as she stood by her sister’s side.
After the ceremony, the staff had to mop the floor from her tears.
Matthew looked tall and handsome standing by his father’s side. For the
twentieth time he felt his pockets for the ring and vows. Matt and his recent
bride Michelle were the perfect couple — they had been married in Santa Fe two
months prior.
There is much ado in life, but in the end one’s children are the sum total.
Herb felt that way about Matthew, the poet and Daniel, the scholar. He loved
them both with all his heart and his chest swelled with pride whenever he saw
them.
We stood hand-in-hand as the Justice-of-the-Peace, silhouetted by the Indian
Ocean below, officiated. A light rain, portending good luck for a marriage,
began to fall.
We had worked long and hard on our vows and were determined that they would be
much more than words. They are, after all, a sacred oath — the constitution, as
it were, for our lives together. Each word was bound by our honor and we will
not break our vows. They will be framed and receive a prominent place on the
wall of our home.
Afterward, Herb presented his wife to the teary eyed guests and congratulatory
hugs and handshakes were exchanged. This was the happiest moment of our lives.
After the ceremony, toasts were made by the pool. When the orchestra played
Lady in White, we danced, lost in each others arms.
The guests included Ruth, Vic, Beverly, Mama Holt, Eric, Michelle, Jane, Keith,
and Ray. We all enjoyed the extended dinner and following dinner, we cut the
cakes and fed each other. This is indeed paradise.
And so ended our beginning.
October 24 Friday
Sharing our happiness with a new friend |
Most of us went on an excursion to the neighboring islands. The sea was calm
but it rained most of the day. Kerensa and Herb went diving, Kara and Eric
snorkeled, and the rest of the gang toured the Island of Praslin.
It was a much deserved lazy day as we got use to the term “Mr. and Mrs. Vest.”
October 25 Saturday
Vic, Beverly, Kara, Eric, Mama Holt, Keith, and Ray left on the twin Otter that
the Seychelles meretriciously refer to as their 'airline'. We had spent the
entire day with them, and Herb saw Kerensa’s sentimental side as she cried on
his shoulder while their plane bounced down the grassy runway on take off.
That evening the rest of us got together for dinner at the Pirates Bar.
October 26 Sunday
At 7:00 am we went to the helo pad to see M & M off for their second
honeymoon (Paris), before flying back to Santa Fe. Yes, Kerensa cried.
At 9:00 am, we again went to the helo pad to see Mama Ruth, Jane, and Linda off
to London where they would take the train through the channel to Paris. From
there they would fly back to the Big D. Why do you bother to ask? Yes, Kerensa
cried again (remind Herb to carry more hankies).
The rest of the day was pure honeymoon and none of your business.
October 27 Monday
We couldn’t leave without revisiting the magical site of our wedding. It is
located on top of the hill overlooking the ocean and the rest of the island and
we relived every moment — again recited our vows. (We had recited them each
night to each other since the wedding.) And we danced one more time to the song
that was playing in our minds.
It was 9:00 am at the helo pad when our time came. We now know how Adam and Eve
must have felt when they left the Garden of Eden.
I can’t believe you would ask that! Of course we will be back! In fact, in our
minds, we will never leave.
We arrived in Rome at 7:00 pm absolutely exhausted, checked into the Westin
Excelsior, and went straight to bed.
God, how could we be so lucky.
October 28 Tuesday
It is obvious that when Gibbons wrote of the Decline and Fall of the Roman
Empire, he had not witnessed Kerensa at Valentinos. Today, she did more to
strengthen the Euro than all of the Central Banks of the world combined. We are
expecting a call from the U.S. Federal Reserve any minute pleading with her to
give the dollar a break. Meanwhile, Herb, having advanced warning of the
monetary fiasco, made a fortune in currency speculation. Unfortunately, it will
not be enough to mitigate the damage.
From Gucci, to Prada, toValentino, to Versace, each one, in turn, had to close
their doors after her departure for lack of inventory. Kerensa taught Herb a
curious economic fact originally discovered by American politicians: “It’s not
how much you spend that counts. Its how much money you are saving”. Buoyed by
the revelation, Herb returned to the hotel content that he had saved a bundle.
October 29 Wednesday
When one is in Rome for a few days, one begins to miss the American way of
life. It is the little things—simple things—like crossing the street with at
least a reasonable expectation of reaching the other side alive. It was only
today that we learned the Caesar’s hidden meaning when he said “the die is
cast” when he crossed the Rubicon.
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Here we are at the airport in rome leaving
for Venice (we forgot to take pictures the whole time we were in rome).
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What is the difference between a dead tourist in the road and a dead Roman?
There is no difference—no skid marks in front of either. There are no traffic
laws in Rome—only very loose guidelines. Things like braking for red lights and
pedestrians and staying on the right side of the road are considered old
fashioned conventions applicable only to lesser mortals. When we asked our
driver why he was driving on the wrong side of the road, he replied “because
there are too many cars on the right side”. Ask a silly question.
We spent most of the day recuperating from yesterday’s shopping. Kerensa
realized that she forgot to get a red bag to go with her Gucci red shoes. If
you are asking why she didn’t carry another bag instead you are exhibiting the
same lack of fashion consciousness that Herb displayed.
October 30 Thursday
Arrivederci Roma. Salve Venice. Water, water, everywhere, and not a street to
drive in. We took a water taxi to the Cipriani Hotel and were not prepared for
either the cold or rain. All of our appropriate clothes had been sent home with
Keith! Well, that is just another reason (along with red shoes) for Kerensa to
go shopping.
Shortly after arriving, Kerensa disclosed her plan to move Herb’s sports gear to
the attic to make room for her new cloths. “Small price to pay for the woman
you love,” Herb thought as he reconsidered Kerensa’s request to move into a
larger abode.
Oh, by the way, this is our one week anniversary. We celebrated at a local
restaurant.
October 31 Friday
Oh, those red shoes we bought in Rome? Well, one must have a red Fendi purse to
match. So off we go shopping! Then pizza at a local establishment followed by a
drink at Harry’s Bar. There, at the corner table, sat Hemingway’s ghost and at
that moment a church bell rang — we wondered for whom the bell tolled.
Venice is wet and wonderful. It was by water taxi that we arrived at the
shopping district and there was a chill in the air for which we were ill
prepared. A slight drizzle set the mood. We wandered the town searching for our
evening meal at Quadri’s. Following dinner, we made our way back to the hotel
by water taxi.
November 1 Saturday
Rain and chill caused us to stay in the hotel all day. (We did use our private
outdoor hot tub.) That night we dined at Cipriani Restaurant at the hotel. We
discussed True Beginnings and the results that we had received on the
compatibility test. We were excited to use the new business to help other
couples find what we ourselves had found.
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